11/2/2009 Mark Anthony Kuylen (Sidney, MT) Dearest Donna, I was so shocked when I heard. I'm at loss of words. We all are so very sorry for your loss. May the good Lord comfort you all. With Love...Mark

11/2/2009 Marshall Maisel (Caldwell, ID) Jake I am going to miss you soo much man! We had some awesome times together, and there were many. I learned a lot from you, and I just wish our last words weren't over casual texting/emailing. You will be GREATLY missed and I will NEVER forget the early times of our lives we spent together...

11/2/2009 Shelli and Brian Hayes (Epping, North Dakota) Donna, I am so sorry to hear about Jake, our thoughts and prayers are with you!

11/2/2009 Robert Tripp (Stevensville, Michigan) Hey, I only knew Jake online through the forums and everything but I've known him almost 5 years now... It doesn't matter how you know a person, a loss is a loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family, we're gonna miss you Jake.

11/2/2009 Carol Peebles (Nanaimo, BC Canada) Ted and Donna, There is no words that can express how sorry and sad we are. The kids and I love you both very much and if you can take any comfort in knowing that we there with you in our hearts for every step you take over the next few days, weeks, months and years to come, you will not be alone to share the greif. We will always love you Jake and miss you even more. Love Aunty Carol, Kristy, Clint, Cain and Kelly.

11/2/2009 Bill Sorteberg Jake was a fine young man.He was a natural born mechanic and craftsman.I will miss his sense of humor.Jake was one of the good guys.My heart goes out to Donna and all of Jakes family.We all have lost a good man.

11/2/2009 Collin (Anacortes, Washington) I didn't believe it when I first heard it, then I was linked to this page. I'm shocked to find this wasn't a hoax....I was really hoping it was. I've known Jake since 2005, we knew each other through an internet forum. One of the few intelligent, interesting members of the forum. Had some good discussions with him...he was a good guy. Goodbye, Jake. &T will miss you.

11/2/2009 Elva Ward (Sexsmith, Alberta) Dear Ted and Donna ----- This is such a sad sad time. I can't find any words to even try to tell you how I feel. Know that you have our love and support. Know that if I could I would be there beside you with a hug and a coffee and a shoulder. Know that my heart is breaking too and that the pain is shared. I am sorry I never got to know our Jake as I would have liked, we always think we have all the time in the world. Love to you both - and to your families. xoxo Elva

11/2/2009 Artie & Cindy Gunderson (Portland , Oregon) Donna please accept our deepest sympathies in you time of sorrow. We wish that your strength and internal resolve sees you through this difficult time.

11/3/2009 alexander224 I am so sorry and I was shocked when I heard the news. I will keep you all in my prayers.

11/3/2009 Kelly Peebles (High River , AB) To hear of this, my heart breaks. I love you Jake, RIP. Love your cousin Kelly

11/3/2009 Jay and Wanda Bingeman (Epping) Donna, There are no words to take away the pain of your loss of Jake. Just know that God needed him to run that big train in heaven. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Jay, Wanda and Lacy

11/3/2009 Kristie Asay (Billings, MT) Donna~ Please know how much I am thinking about you in this time of pain and sorrow. You are in my prayers, as is Jake. Kristie

11/3/2009 Staci (Sidney, MT) So sorry about your loss. Jake was such a great guy and always knew how to make you laugh. He will be dearly missed by all.

11/3/2009 Stacey Brown (Sidney, MT) My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Jake's family and friends. Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’ Isaiah 41:10

11/3/2009 Stacy Murschel (Ray, ND) To Jake's Family, I was saddened to hear of Jake's passing. He was in my 6th grade class in Ray. I remember his laugh and how he was always willing to share his knowledge. May he rest in peace. My prayers are with you. Stacy Murschel

11/3/2009 Slowdown I will miss you Jake(Ytter) You were one of the more intelligent and cool posters. It's sad to see that you've gone. I wish your family all the best, and to anyone else feeling like they have nowhere to go, please try to reach out to friends or family, maybe even a support group, but whatever you do, don't try go about it on your own.

11/3/2009 Marlo Jungemann (Ray, ND) Donna, So sorry to hear of Jakes passing. He was a very gifted person!

11/3/2009 Kim Hagstrom & the boys (Windsor, Co) Donna, I am so so sorry...last time Jake and all of us spent any time together he was working at the radio station and honored me with a dedication of one of my favorite songs: Benny and The Jets. You could just see the smile on his face and it touched me so much! Jake you were a cool guy and I enjoyed hanging out with you from time to time, but never often enough it seems. Do you remember when he and Byron were painting those rocks at Barb's... he painted one with a heart and said he wished he had one for everyone?? He would make everyone happy!! I think he was about 5 or 6yrs old and I thought it was one of the cutest things I had ever heard. Jake will be terribly missed and we love you! Kim,Connor and Gavin

11/3/2009 Mike Olson (Williston, North dakota) Jake, you are deeply missed. Anybody who was lucky enough to meet him knows that he was a great friend and truly a unique person. Each of us will always carry his memory in a special place in our hearts. Thank you for all the unforgettable memories.

11/3/2009 Kristy-lee Peebles (Nanaimo BC, Canada) Uncle Ted, and Aunty Donna... My heart goes out to you both during this most difficult time....I love you Jake, and will miss you terribly.. Love your cousin Kristy-lee

11/3/2009 The Fritsches (Ray, ND) We are so sorry for your loss... Jake was a good guy that had the rare gift of making anyone laugh. His memories, kindness,& laughter will be remembered by many.

11/3/2009 Jake "kelsokid18" Fleshman I am a member of one of the online communities Jake posted in frequently over the past few years, and Jake and I talked frequently about our experiences working in small town radio, trains, and life in general. I am deeply saddened by the loss of such an intelligent young man. My thoughts go out to Jake's family and co-workers.

11/3/2009 John I am sorry for your terrible loss. May you find comfort in what Jesus said in the Bible at John 5:28, 29.

11/3/2009 RON & CAROLE HAUG (EPPING, DAK) DONNA, CAROLE AND I ARE IN ROUTE TO NEVADA,WANDA CALLED US AND TOLD US THE SAD NEWS OF JAKE'S PASSING. YOU AND THE REST OF YOUR FAMILY ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH TO CARRY YOU THROUGH THIS SAD TIME. RON AND CAROLE

11/3/2009 Scott Woodward (williston, nd) Jake will be MISSED. He is my good and best friend forever. It wont be the same without you here. God bless.

11/3/2009 Heather Bjerkhoel (Grenora, ND) I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of Jake. Heather, Ryan, April, and Phoebe Bjerkhoel

11/3/2009 Gayle (Hunsbedt) Moore (Lillooet, British Columbia) Dear Ted and Donna I am trying to think about words that could comfort and heal you both! I am probably not that magical but remember this! Both of you made a beautiful boy! There are times like this that there are no answers too as to why it would happen this way! Take comfort in knowing that Jake was a very loved and lucky boy and young man! You both have loved him with your heart! I am sure he knew that too! We are saddenned and mourn your loss of Jake! I wish I could be there for the service! May I please also extend condolences to the rest of your family, Donna, and to the rest of my family too! Cousin Gayle

11/3/2009 Tasha Anderson - Scott W.'s Girlfriend (williston, nd) Jake, It was Great to meet you and know you even thou it was a short time. I am glad to call you friend. You was a great and good person. Donna it was great to meet you too. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Donna. God bless!

11/3/2009 Tom and Cindy Brevik (Epping, ND) Donna We were so shocked to hear of Jakes death. Know that our hearts are heavy for you and we will be thinking of you in the difficult days to come.

11/3/2009 Jake Freytag (Walnut Creek, CA) Jake, I'm sorry we didn't have a proper goodbye. I wish life had been easier on you. You're a great person and a great friend. I hope you realized how many peoples' lives you've touched. You'll be dearly missed.

11/3/2009 Jill Leas (Wellington, FL) Oh ytter, I think you may have been the only person on &T, Zoklet or Oddspot that everyone liked. Can't believe you're gone, I'm so sorry we never got to go camping or sit around a campfire. Another good man will be sorely missed.

11/4/2009 Benjamin Johnston (Kamloops, British Columbia) I remember one summer when Jake came to visit he was telling about different types of trains but I was way to young to understand it so i just nodded and agreed with him. I am going to remember him forever. Rest In Peace cousin.

11/4/2009 Deanna Fast (Grande Prairie, AB) It has been quite a few years since I seen Jake, but I remember him as being a real interesting little kid...I was looking forward to getting to know Jake one day as a young man... Jake's loss really puts life into perspective of how much you love the people around you, and how little time you have to show it. This truly is a tragic loss and I am so sorry Uncle Teddy and Donna, my heart goes out to you and although there is nothing a person can do right now to ease your pain, you will always have your memories... Love Always, Deanna xo

11/4/2009 Björn (Sweden) I´m so sorry and sad to hear about Jake.... I only met him a few times but always felt I´d liked him very much. Last time I met him he asked me if we could take a ride in our Porsche convertible, and I did. The speed and wind made him to the most happy guy I have ever seen and during the ride he looked up at me with beaming eyes and a the cutest smile from ear to ear and said `sweeeet`..... I will never forget that. Today my thougts goes to Donna and Jakes relatives. Björn

11/4/2009 Jan Herfindahl (Tioga, ND) Donna & Family, My heart goes out to you with the loss of Jake. He was one bright guy with a big heart who will not be forgotten. I always enjoyed visiting with Jake and you, Donna. Remember you are surrounded by many caring people, and the Lord is holding out his Hands with healing power. Jan & Vernon Herfindahl

11/4/2009 SHARP I only knew you from the online forums Jake, but you were without a doubt one of the few posters that I'd consider a friend. I'll miss you mate, rest in peace.

11/4/2009 sandy maisel (williston, nd) Dear Donna, i will always remember the birthday partys our boys shared, growing up, they had so much fun. very sad, for all that knew jake. GOD SPEED

11/4/2009 Byron Kuylen (Sidney, MT) Jake, I am at a loss of words bud. I found out this had happened and I was in shock. I've had a hard time this week getting motivated bud. I can't think. It's been hard imagining that I never get to talk to you again. But like all bad things that have happened in my life, I just think to myself that we will all get to have a good time up in heaven. This time it won't be on the guest bed in barbs house. That was one story that stuck with you and I. Sometimes the plans you and I had got a little outrageous. You were never one to back down from anything. Even if were to get in an arguement. But we were always to pull out of it. I am gonna miss you. I only got the one picture of us in the last year but I won't ever forget it. I will always look back at how we had plans to do things as we got older. Neither one of us have followed our plans so far. But I know you will be happy up there because I have some good friends up there that are probably showing you all the fun things there are to do. I write to tell you I miss you like a brother and that you will be missed. Your welcome to visit me anytime. I don't mind talking. Ill probably talk to you a little more then you'd like. I'm starting to get teary eye'd writing to you. I'm so sorry it had to be this way. I love you man. I wish it wasn't this way. There's things I wish I could have done to help more. I'm sorry we didn't get to hang out more while I was in town. It was a blast when we did. Don't have to much fun without me. And don't do anything I wouldn't do or just wait for me. Love you man. I'll see you soon. It's just a temporary goodbye. Bye brother.

11/4/2009 Sarah (Orem, UT) Jake was the first person to welcome me to a new town and school, Ray; he always had something funny or whitty to say, and I am so sad that the world will have one less amazing person. But as long as we remember him, he will never really be gone.

11/4/2009 Cathy Hunsbedt Burgess (Fanny Bay, BC) Ted and Donna My heart is breaking for you, I remember Jake as the sweetest little boy and how much his Mom and Dad loved him , I am so so sorry for this terrible loss of a bright Star. Cathy

11/4/2009 Bonnie Johnston (Clearwater, BC, Canada) Words cannot express my regret and sympathy, Auntie Donna and Uncle Ted, I love you both. My best memories of Jake are of him staying at our house in the summer months when all us kids were free. I will never forget Jake's laugh, you could hear it a mile away and it always made you smile. During the day we always swam, Jake was quite the water baby. At Dutch Lake or Raft Falls we would dive for pennies and scare away the tourists with our duck itch. (Jake always got it the worst) At night, or as Jake would call "blue time" we would run around playing hide and go seek in the dark or sit by the fire. We always loved it when Jake came down because it meant we got to go for a ride on the miniature train ride that he loved so much. To Jake: I was looking forward to seeing you again. You were another brother, and I am sad to lose you. You will be greatly missed. xoxo Bonnie Blue

11/4/2009 Donny & Betty Christopherson (Epping, ND) Donna, We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Jake. He was very special to you, just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Donny & Betty

11/4/2009 Casey Dave Ma (Homestead) Donna, Sorry to hear this sad news. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

11/5/2009 Alvina and Gary Skogen (Epping, ND) Donna - I was Jake's English teacher and class advisor while he was attending school in Ray. I see him sitting in the back row, "hunkered" down in his chair, knowing that he listened to every word I said and every word that we read. In my teaching career, I would guess Jake was one of the most well-read students I have even encountered; as a result, his writing skills were also amazing. His class was a very diversified group of young people thrust together at that time. I see that some of his classmates have also responded with their appreciation of his friendship. Please know that we are grieving with you in the loss of Jake.

11/5/2009 Margi & Willy Johnston (Clearwater, BC) Ted & Donna, You won't be able to see us, but we will be there with you on Friday. Love you so much.

11/5/2009 D RIP Jake, you and your family will be in my prayers.

11/5/2009 The Brady & LaDonna Finnicum Family (Velva, ND) We are truly saddened to hear the news of Jake's passing. We have fond memories of Jake and we know that he will be missed by many. May God comfort your family during this tragic time. Sincerely, Brady, LaDonna & Family

11/5/2009 Berk & Gail Johnson (Sidney, MT) Dear Donna and family So sorry to hear of Jakes passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you. I didn't get to know Jake as an adult but remember him well when Gail was watching him for a spell. A great loss.

11/5/2009 Kim Skeens (Sidney, MT) Jake was like a brother to both me and Chris. Donna I hope nothing but the best for you, and we're here for you. Jake was an amazing person, and I am definitely blessed for having him as my friend.

11/5/2009 Carol Matthews (Prince George, BC, Canada) Dear Teddy and Donna, Words cannot express how sad and sorry I was to hear about Jake. He will want you to remember all the good memories of your lives together, and there were many! I wish I could be there with you at this very difficult time. Please be as strong as possible.... Our heartfelt thoughts are with you. Love Carol & Dan

11/6/2009 Bob MacCuish (Vavenby, B.C., Canada) Donna & Teddy Knowing today is the mostdifficult day of your lives I would like you to know that I'm thinking of you both and grieving with you and the rest of the families. There aren't words enough to comfort you today.Some wisdom from Jake's grandpa Norman come to mind though. Any time there was something that would tear our souls apart he would simply say " TIME WILL ALWAYS HEAL" and it does. There may be scars but time WILL heal. Love & God Bless and be with you on this journey. Bob

11/6/2009 Cathy Hunsbedt Burgess (Fanny Bay, BC) Just to let you know, Well we could not be with you for Jake's service, we are all sending our best comforting thoughts and our prayers to Jake in heaven. thinking of Jake's family at this hardest time in their life and hoping they find so comfort on this hard day. Love Cathy

11/6/2009 Bill Long compassion, What gives more support than a sympathetic tear on the face of a friend?" When words are hard, tears speak clearly